All the same email is pretty siloed, for personal addresses. Running your own server is a hassle for anyone,and the most popular provider stopped being "not evil" some time since 2004 when I got my address there.
Running your own server is not a hassle for "anyone". I wish people would stop stating this like it's a fact. Having maintained communal SMTP/IMAP servers for the last 20+ years I can tell you that sometimes a year goes by where I don't have to touch it at all.
All the same email is pretty siloed, for personal addresses. Running your own server is a hassle for anyone,and the most popular provider stopped being "not evil" some time since 2004 when I got my address there.