I felt the same way until my butterfly keyboard gradually stopped working and I went back to my old 2014 MBP keyboard, and realized I had developed Stockholm Syndrome. If you haven't already, try switching back to the old (or new) scissor keys and see if you still feel the same.
Agreed - I used the 2017 model for a couple years and no complaints about the feel, just the non-working keys. But I didn’t realize that my typing had gotten slower and less precise.
I switched to the X1C7 and will prioritize key travel and response from now on.
I had one of the butterfly keyboards at work and an old one at home. I still feel like the butterfly keyboard felt crisper and faster to type on. I never dealt with any issues with the butterfly keyboard, but I only used it about a year.