IMO this is just basic consumerism couched in a simluation of industrious investing. If you're remodeling for higher resale value, then you're a flipper and should build accordingly - ie everything this post is lamenting. Otherwise, just be honest with yourself that you're spending money for your own personal enjoyment.

Try selling a custom bicycle and you'll see how lovingly-picked components add up into a resale value, at a much lower price.