Same here, and I prefer Linux systems that give me more control, so I take the time to install Void and Gentoo on all my machines (and even my primary dedicated server runs Void).
But whenever I try to install Ubuntu or Fedora on a laptop, it just installs and boots fine.
I recently noticed how severely is Android limitted in this during the recent Android Firefox update fiasco.
On desktop linux I could have just backed up the profile folder and downgraded the package & it might not have hit the repositories at all due to negative user feedback.
But whenever I try to install Ubuntu or Fedora on a laptop, it just installs and boots fine.