FWIW, most of Google's Ads services share a database - the catch is it's F1 on top of Spanner. Latency is highish, but throughput is good.
In the outside world, for an application that may truly need to scale, I'd go MySQL -> Vitess before I'd choose separate data stores for each service with state. But I'd also question if the need to scale that much really exists; you can go a long way even with data heavy applications with a combination of sharding and multitenancy.
In the outside world, for an application that may truly need to scale, I'd go MySQL -> Vitess before I'd choose separate data stores for each service with state. But I'd also question if the need to scale that much really exists; you can go a long way even with data heavy applications with a combination of sharding and multitenancy.