Yeah, it doesn't help that I really dislike the boyfriend already [1], so there's only so much I can say while still being honest, and I don't really do apologies unless I feel there's something I should be apologizing for.

I suspect the only thing that I can do is be polite to her and just wait it out.

[1] He didn't do anything actionable, he's just kind of a dumb douchebag.