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I feel like nowadays it is more socially acceptable to say you don’t drink than even just 10 years ago.

I can’t recall the last time I was asked “why” after telling someone I don’t drink. All in all, I was fortunate that during university a close friend of mine also didn’t drink. Being the “odd one out” seems harder than being the “odd pair out” lol.

edit: culture plays a role as well in how acceptable it is. I’m from a country that is heavy on alcohol usage though (Belgium).



In the US it’s far more acceptable. I don’t drink and while I’ve been offered, no one ever pushes back. And I’ve never had problems being the only one at parties who didn’t.


This is YMMV. I still get a lot of “why don’t you drink?!! Come on, man!!” in the US. Especially in a city like NYC - you’re signing up to be a bit of a social outcast.


I disassociate from allowing people like this into my life now.


Good for you.

However, in society at large, social influence (excuse the bit of circularity) is an extremely powerful force driving people's lifestyle.




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