I'd love too but a crowd -even mostly loved ones- is for some the hardest way to engage with others. Last weddings I tried to attempt were disasters. Funerals are obviously easier as no/weirdly-interacting is accepted so at least there's less self esteem to loose. I feel the more confortable in one or one to one, three is already to much possible micro-ostracisms to deal with.

To end with a lighter note loosely related, a funny citation of the marshal Foch:

> "An assembly must have an odd number of members in order to make a decision, but three is already too many."