My wife (then girlfriend) and I were at a concert. She went to the bathroom to pee. She came back crying.
I told her she might have a UTI. It was not normal for it to hurt that badly to pee. She denied it. I bought her a UTI test, it came out positive. She was shaking. I told her we had to go to the hospital, she thought they were period cramps.
I call a teledoc. They video chat. She explains the pain shes feeling in her lower back means it’s likely a UTI, the infection has likely reached her kidneys, and we should go to the ER immediately.
In the ER we think they’re going to just give her some antibiotics and send her home. Nope. She throws up. Things go bad fast. Her heart rate is 160. She turns a color I’ve never seen a human before.
The next 3 days were so incredibly hard. But I’m so thankful to all the medical workers that were attentive to us.
Thankfully she makes a full recovery. For a week or so she was lethargic/tired but she’s fully healthy now.
A few months before I had read a story about a woman who’s boyfriend had died from a UTI because they went to a gospital, gave him some antibiotics, and he ending up dying at home because the infection was already too progressed to fight off at home.
Had the person who evaluated my girlfriend not evaluated seriously or just sent her off that could’ve been her. I’m so thankful they admitted her and took her care seriously.
It’s scary how quickly a UTI or some other benign infection can become sepsis. Take it seriously.
> Had the person who evaluated my girlfriend not evaluated seriously or just sent her off that could’ve been her. I’m so thankful they admitted her and took her care seriously.
This might sound strange, but I think you deserve some credit for taking it seriously and being there. It’s a documented issue that women’s problems are frequently written off and downplayed as normal things like period pain.
I’m really truly happy to hear that she made a full recovery as well. It is wonderful to hear that she is okay.
Hamish MacInnes, the Scottish climber, was sectioned in a psychiatric hospital because of confusion and delirium caused by an undiagnosed UTI. It took 5 years for the infection to be diagnosed and treated.
I recall with my grandmother it was almost 1:1. If she started sounding just slightly confused or slightly more forgetful than normal, my mom got her tested for UTI. And sure enough, in just about all the cases she had it.
However the first time it did indeed take quite a while before they figured out she had a UTI, and it took a few times before we figured out the pattern.
Yes, this is so scary! I know I'm just hopping in here with anecdotes but this happened to my friend's mother as well. She was seemingly getting dementia, her health got really bad, she was tired all the time, couldn't figure out what it was for a while. Eventually they figured out UTI, treated it, and all the mental stuff went away as well.
UTI almost always causes delirium in the elderly. Those with dementia go completely off the rails. When my grandma had UTI she was basically in a parallel dimension talking to her deceased parents and that kind of thing.
> Had the person who evaluated my girlfriend not evaluated seriously or just sent her off that could’ve been her
Everybody did well in that instance, including you. Many people won't advocate for themselves, so having someone around who will do it for them is incredibly important.
I told her she might have a UTI. It was not normal for it to hurt that badly to pee. She denied it. I bought her a UTI test, it came out positive. She was shaking. I told her we had to go to the hospital, she thought they were period cramps.
I call a teledoc. They video chat. She explains the pain shes feeling in her lower back means it’s likely a UTI, the infection has likely reached her kidneys, and we should go to the ER immediately.
In the ER we think they’re going to just give her some antibiotics and send her home. Nope. She throws up. Things go bad fast. Her heart rate is 160. She turns a color I’ve never seen a human before.
The next 3 days were so incredibly hard. But I’m so thankful to all the medical workers that were attentive to us.
Thankfully she makes a full recovery. For a week or so she was lethargic/tired but she’s fully healthy now.
A few months before I had read a story about a woman who’s boyfriend had died from a UTI because they went to a gospital, gave him some antibiotics, and he ending up dying at home because the infection was already too progressed to fight off at home.
Had the person who evaluated my girlfriend not evaluated seriously or just sent her off that could’ve been her. I’m so thankful they admitted her and took her care seriously.
It’s scary how quickly a UTI or some other benign infection can become sepsis. Take it seriously.