Would completely understand if the wife took the kid to another country after his idiotic decision to embark on such a trip for a bar bet. If it were my dad, I would have moved to that country myself without any qualms forever.
Also after he left, his wife literally became a single mom, and had to move to receive family support.
EDIT: Yeah same guy, this was posted to Reddit a while back. https://www.reddit.com/r/interestingasfuck/comments/1pfdkfs/...