Am I the only one confused by the very first quote?

> "your feelings about how I might receive this are your problem to manage, not mine, just give me the information."

Followed immediately by

> a person receiving a message bears responsibility for their own emotional reaction to its content

So it's not "your feelings about how I might receive this" but rather "my feelings about how I might receive this are my problem to manage."

EDIT: Ooops I found a comment expressing this thought: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47372043